Suga Bum Bum
Full-time Fine Art Painter, I draw pretty girls so we all can have best friends!
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“I am You, and You Are Me” is ready to be purchased yaay! I love her sooo much!
The Story:So this painting was inspired by a conversation I had with a woman who was sharing with me her life and how she got teased for not being black enough, she said the insults were relentless, I shared my stories of being too black for my community, we told each other how pretty the other was and shared a hug..
So I will call this one : “I am You, and You Are Me”
Stop being A Cum Dumspter!!!
I was ask by a friend to post something about regaining your power back after making the mistake of giving in sexually too quickly. this is what I have to say on that:
You have to understand that there should NOT be any rush for you to get to the bedroom.
Make yourself interesting enough to delay that for as long as it takes to establish an emotional connection. I find that women who usually rush sex are insecure and feel that doing it is the only way to hold his attention. They lack conversation skills and knowledge but they know how to deep throat..soooooo.
I don’t care if Barnum and Baily Circus can hire you as a Sperm Juggler”, the magic and desire to have sex with you can and does water down, it may take him a bit longer to get bored with you because of skill level but it ALWAYS becomes regular..
So being that it does, your focus is not to show him how you arch your back just yet. But if you have done the deed already the best thing to do is now is to know why it was a mistake, and to honor yourself by never doing that again until the time is right, you feel good about yourself when you keep promises to YOURSELF..
When you don’t follow through on your own promises it creates weakness in your character which you translate to self worth. Decide today that indulging now is too soon and cannot enhance a relationship that has not even been established yet… STOP BE A CUM DUMPSTER!!!!!